How do Jewish parents choose a baby name?▼
In Ashkenazi (Eastern European) Jewish tradition, babies are typically named after deceased relatives to honor their memory. The name doesn't have to be an exact match — many families choose a name that starts with the same letter or carries a similar meaning. Sephardic Jews, by contrast, often name children after living relatives. Beyond honoring family, parents may choose names based on the Torah portion of the week the child was born, the meaning of the name, or simply because they find the name beautiful.
What is the difference between a Hebrew name and a Yiddish name?▼
Hebrew names come from the Hebrew language and often appear in the Torah and other sacred texts — names like Moshe, Rivka, and Dovid. Yiddish names emerged from the Yiddish language, which blends Hebrew, Germanic, and Slavic elements — names like Velvel (wolf), Golda (golden), and Zissel (sweet). Many Jews historically had both: a Hebrew name (shem hakodesh) used for religious purposes and a Yiddish name (kinnui) used in daily life. Today, either type can be used as a child's primary Jewish name.
Can I give my baby a Yiddish name if I'm not Jewish?▼
While Yiddish names come from Jewish tradition, there is no religious prohibition against non-Jews using them. Many Yiddish-origin names like Goldie, Hershel, and Zelda are already used broadly. However, it's respectful to learn about the cultural significance of the name you're choosing and to use it with awareness of its heritage. Some names carry deep religious meaning that may feel more appropriate within a Jewish context.
When is a Jewish baby named?▼
A Jewish baby boy is traditionally named at his brit milah (circumcision ceremony) on the 8th day after birth. A baby girl is typically named at the first Torah reading after her birth, when the father is called to the Torah and the name is announced. In some communities, a special naming ceremony called a simchat bat or zeved habat is held for girls. The Hebrew/Yiddish name given at these ceremonies is the child's official Jewish name, used for all religious purposes throughout their life.
Do I need to give my child both a Hebrew name and an English name?▼
There is no strict requirement, but it is very common in diaspora Jewish families to give a child both a Hebrew/Yiddish name and a secular name in the local language. The Hebrew name is used for religious occasions (being called to the Torah, the ketubah/marriage contract, prayers for healing), while the secular name is used in everyday life. Some families choose names that sound similar in both languages, like Ari/Ari, or that share the same initial letter.
Is it bad luck to name a baby after a living person in Ashkenazi tradition?▼
In Ashkenazi tradition, it is customary not to name a child after a living relative. This practice is rooted in folk beliefs — some say it could 'confuse' the Angel of Death, others believe it could shorten the living person's life by transferring their spiritual identity to the child. However, this is a custom (minhag), not a religious law (halacha). Sephardic Jews have the opposite custom and frequently name children after living grandparents as a sign of honor.
What if I want to honor a relative whose name I don't like?▼
You have several options: use the same first letter (honoring Grandpa Morris with the name Mendel), use a name with the same meaning (honoring someone named Rose with the name Raizel or Shoshana), use the Hebrew equivalent of their Yiddish name or vice versa, or use the relative's name as a middle name. The important thing in Jewish tradition is the intention to honor — the exact name match is secondary.
What is a Jewish naming ceremony?▼
For boys, the naming takes place at the brit milah (circumcision) on the 8th day. For girls, there are various ceremonies: the traditional approach is for the father to be called to the Torah and announce the name; more modern options include a simchat bat (celebration of the daughter), a zeved habat (Sephardic naming ceremony), or a creative ceremony incorporating both traditional and modern elements. All ceremonies typically include a blessing, the announcement of the full Hebrew name, and an explanation of whom the child is named for.